Progressive Pioneer

Valentine Cards

Last year we sent out valentines instead of Christmas cards and I loved it so much that we're doing it again this year!  We just might have a tradition in the making.  Not worrying about holiday cards is great; it's one less thing to do and gets me that much closer to the simple, relaxed Christmas I'm always aiming for.  And besides that, after Christmas winter just sort of yawns huge and long ahead of me, and I love having something pretty and fun to break up the onslaught of short, dark, chilly days.  I have a feeling other people might enjoy a spot of bright and pretty in their midwinter as well, so I love sending out stacks and stacks of cheerful Valentines.

This year, Clay illustrated a portrait of our little family and then digitally added a greeting, which he painted separately, so that we can frame the portrait, but still use the image with the greeting to print cards from. 

Check out some in-progress shots and read about our printing experience after jump.

Handmade, Soft Nativity Set

Ever since Sam was born I've wanted to have a soft nativity set that kids could play with.  I love the idea of them being able to interact with the pieces and really think about the people.  This year I finally made one!  The whole thing is super simple.  You can download the pattern and instructions here:

Progressive Pioneer Gift Guide

Forget Occupy Wall Street.  If we just did the majority of our shopping at tiny, independent retailers, all those nice people could have stayed home.  Let's reverse economic trends one small business at a time!  So, if you're planning on doing a little shopping this season, consider some of these rad, small businessnes first.  We try to stick close to the "something to wear, something to play with, something to read (or learn with)" rule, plus whatever we can fit in the stockings.  Here are a few of my current favorites.

Stocking Stuffers for Everyone:

The good kind of treats: honey sticks, Panda licorice, roasted seaweed (No?  This totally tastes like candy to me...), nuts, crunchy fruit...  (What else?  I'd love to hear what healthy treats you stuff in your stockings!)

Handmade Christmas Stocking Tutorial

This post is sponsored by Stubby Pencil Studio, where you'll find interesting, uncommon gifts that kids will love and you'll feel good about buying: eco-friendly stocking stuffers, gifts under $10, and green art supplies.
I started making these curly toed, elf-inspired, Christmas stockings a few years ago.  They're so fun to make that we now have way more stockings that people in our family (time to have more kids...?).  I had the brilliant idea to stock up on wool sweaters over the summer

Christmas Already(?)

I've been seeing this cartoon floating around facebook where the turkey is chewing out Santa Claus for taking over his month (have you seen it?  It's funny.), so I feel a bit chagrined to have put up Christmas decorations, but it just sort of happened.

Happy Halloween!

I love Halloween!  I used to go all out on my costumes, but since I've had kids I focus more on theirs.  I really can't get away with trick-or-treating anymore anyway :)  I've been recycling this mermaid costume I made in college, for the last few years.  Luckily Sam wanted to be an octopus this year so we were able to keep the family theme going.  Vivi wore his old lobster costume with the addition of some pearls. 

Happy Valentine's Day!

I'm so glad we did Valentine's cards this year.  It was way more low-stress than Christmas cards, there's so much else going on that time of year anyway.  It's nice to get festive and send a little love out to friends and family when the world (at least our corner of it) is still relatively dark and chilly.  

Here's how we made our cards.  I gathered up supplies (a large sheet from the second-hand store, some batting for the cloud I had on hand from another project, a pair of wings and little hearts from the party store, a stick from the backyard and some twine to make the bow and arrow, and Sam's cutest red clothes).  I took the kids' pictures in shifts; it was hard enough getting one of them to look the right way at the right time.  Getting both of them doing what they were supposed to do at the same time would've been far outside my skill range. 

The other crucial element in this undertaking is a photoshop savvy husband.  Clay was able to put Sam and Vivian's pictures together, add some good looking text and create this pretty, striped back for the card. 
Once we had the image the way we liked it we sent the file off to NextDayFlyers and they even came back a day earlier than expected!  I was able to get most off them addressed in one day, though I was still cutting it pretty close to getting them out on time, which meant I couldn't write as long of a note on each card.  In a perfect world, I would've had these printed and on my doorstep two weeks before Valentine's day, so I could have taken my time, writing a personal, thoughtful note on each one (there's always next year!).  We did include a link to the family letter though and I think I prefer that to printing out a bazillion copies. 
How about you?  Did you make any fun valentines this year?  I'm excited for the day Sam and Viv are old enough and interested in sending out cards of their own too:)

Valentine Cards

Since we didn't get around to sending out Christmas cards (seriously, you are my hero if you managed to do that!) we decided to send out Valentine cards.  After all the excitement of Christmas, winter just seems to drag on, so it was fun for us to have a little project to get excited about while it's still cold and dreary out.  Plus, after all the holiday hoopla I have all this creative energy to burn, since I'm not up to my ears in half a dozen projects with a deadline.  I won't unveil the card today, but I will tell you a little about it...

We decided to take a picture of the kids, but not just any old picture mind you, one that involves cupid wings, raining hearts and flying babies...  Clay doctored it up in photoshop and we're having a whole bunch printed on postcards (this place is great for procrastinators like myself because they print it in one day).  

I know there are strong feelings about the holiday letter- some people love 'em, some hate 'em.  I happen to love receiving them, but have never written one myself.  I thought maybe I would include one with our Valentine cards.  But, since we're sending postcards, I figured we wouldn't have room to write a whole yearly update.  So, I'm thinking of just writing it online and including a link in the note on the postcard.  What do you think?  Would that be weird?  I just figure that way they get a cute, updated picture of the kids, a personal note, and if they want, they have the option of reading a more detailed version of our escapades in 2010.

What are you doing for Valentine's day?  Do you send Valentines far and wide or just to a select few?  I think we'll hand deliver some of the cards to the neighbors along with some cookies.

PS See that herbal recipe over there on the sidebar?  I'm going to try putting up a new one each week, just for fun.  I'll do my best to link to sources and be good about updating it...  Let me know if you try one!

PPS I think we might have extra cards, we're ordering a lot; I'll totally send you one if you send me your address!  Just email it (don't leave it in the comments) with the words VALENTINE CARD in the title and I'll be more than happy to send out any extras we have!

Two Simple Goals

I used to get all gung-ho about New Year's resolutions, making long, ambitious lists, aiming to completely revolutionize my life.  But, as you can imagine, those goals fizzled out pretty quickly.  And this meant that since I wasn't succeeding at all of them, I just let them all slide.  Now I only set one or two goals at the start of the new year and find that much more manageable, and it's much more likely that I'll actually accomplish the goals and see real, lasting change in my habits and life. 

So, this year I have two simple goals.  The first, inspired by a friend, is to have morning devotionals with my kids.  Nothing fancy, long or planned ahead of time.  Just while we're at the table, eating our breakfast we'll sing a few songs, read our family mission statement and each read one verse of scripture.  Sam repeats his verse after me and I read Viv's for her:)  We started a few days before the new year and so far it's going well.  I'm finding it sets a nice tone for the day and Sam is really enjoying it, especially the singing songs part.  It's simple enough that I'm hoping it will weave its way permanently into our routine and can change and adapt as our kids grow. My second goal is to have people over for dinner more often.  Every Sunday Clay and I get home from church and inevitably one of us says something along the lines of, "You know, we should really have the so-and-sos over for dinner some time..."  And we really do want to, and so we wait for the perfect opportunity, a time when we don't have to catch up on yardwork, and nobody has a cold, and we're not exhausted from one of the kids waking us up all night long, and I've got the house spotless...  Needless to say, we haven't had many people over.  So, my goal is to simply make a point of having people over on a regular basis whether or not the house is put together and our lives are perfectly organized, because that's never really going to happen (those are New Year's goals for another year!), and in the meantime we really want to enjoy some good company! How's your new year shaping up?  Are you feeling good and optimistic?  Excited about a fresh year, full of possibilities?  I hope so!

Green and Simple

Here's a little article I wrote for Babble about keeping the holidays a bit more green, clean and simple.  If we could stick to these ten things this season we'd probably earn some wings- you know what they say about cleanliness:)

 

Forget Perfection

Yesterday's advent activity was to hang some mistletoe and there was none to be found (at least not in our house and I wasn't about to bundle up both kids for a trip to the store for mistletoe).  So, carried on the wave of Sam's enthusiasm, I dug into my felt scraps and we made our own!  It may not be mistaken for the real thing, or even an actual plant of any sort, but we had such a fun time making it and it felt good to just decide that good enough was just fine.  Sometimes I get caught up in having everything just so; even though I'm not out buying lots of fancy stuff I can still obsess about making everything by hand and having everything all perfect like it is in my head.  At these times I try to give myself a little reality check and remember that all the traditions and activities around Christmas aren't about perfection, but they are about spending time with my kiddos and just relaxing and enjoying this cozy time of year.  And yesterday it was about doing something fun with Sam, enjoying a little morning creativity and a reminder for extra smooches.  Wonky homemade mistletoe works just as well as the fancy stuff for eliciting extra smooching!
A little wreath wire, some wool felt and some pearls (so swanky, I know!  They were the most mistletoe-like beads in my stash) and we had ourselves a rather close approximation of the plant, if a somewhat loose interpretation.  The beads were stuck on the ends of the wire, which I gathered in a bunch, twisting the felt leaves in between to hold them in place.  It didn't take very long at all and Sam loves it.  He's completely into the whole idea of smooching under the mistletoe and catches me every time!  We've permanently parked Vivian's bouncy seat under it and she is subject to multitudinous kisses from her brother.

A More Meaningful Advent Calendar

I finally finished the list of daily activities for our advent calendar (only a week into December!).  It had been on my list of things to do for quite some time, but December snuck up so quickly and has been such a whirlwind!  This year's updated calendar is my attempt to turn our attention back to the Savior throughout the season.  Each day has a scripture and follows the Christmas story, one small detail at a time.  I purposefully made each detail quite small and simple such that I could elaborate or not, depending on the mood.  If Sam is receptive and interested, we can talk more about it, if not we move straight on to the activity!  So, each day also has an activity, something Christmas-y but simple, something we can do together, but that won't throw my day off if I haven't planned for it:)  Though I am keeping a master list printed out for myself so I can glance a day or two ahead.  I don't want that Israeli dinner one sneaking up on me!

Since I'm not tech-saavy enough to know how to attach a file or make it available online, I'm just going to paste our 25 days in the comments section and if you're interested you can see it there.  Our family is LDS so the scriptures and thoughts are from that perspective, but I think the activities would be fun for anyone celebrating Christmas.  Regardless of how you're spending these chilly winter days I hope you're finding time for a little quiet, a little cozy, and a little peaceful contemplation.

Secret Santa Saturday: Fabric and Yarn Gifts

This is the first of six posts that will hopefully get your creative juices flowing!  We're going full speed ahead for our $100 Christmas goal; I think mostly what we'll buy is stocking stuffers.  I go nuts about stuffing stockings:)  Here's a glimpse at what lies ahead; for the next three weeks I'll do two posts each Saturday, in the following order.

• Fabric and Yarn Gifts
• Gifts in Jars
• Gifts for Guys and Gals
• Gifts Kids Can Make
• Edible Gifts
• Last Minute Gifts

You could also check the Make and Do archives as I think there are probably some good project ideas in there.  The thing about brainstorming projects is that once you get started you end up with way more fantastic ideas that you have time for!  My mind is already spinning after compiling these lists...  Happy making!

Lovely table linens.
I would LOVE a basket of these felt rocks.

A reusable lunch set.  Here's one in a pretty oil cloth.

Felt food!  I've totally been looking for an excuse to make some of these amazing "snacks."

For little guys nuts about cars (or for any kid really, because it's that cool), how about a customized, oil cloth floor mat? 
And for the girly-girl in your life, a super fluffy tutu!
A pointy hat from a felted sweater, or any type of hat really, the possibilities are endless!  Oh, felted wool, how I love you...
Mittens with character.

Recycled sweater totes.

A sweet, stuffed critter.

And what more appropriate wrapping for such lovelies as some of this charming sewn packaging?  Or perhaps some reusable, cloth gift bags?

PS Here's another fun book that should've definitely been on Thursday's list.  I couldn't resist adding it here; it's so adorable!

Secret Santa Saturday: Gifts in Jars

The fun thing about gifts in jars is that it's easy to make up a whole bunch of something and then make lots of pretty packages of it.  These make great neighbor gifts, mom's group gifts, co-worker gifts, etc.

Salt Scrub. 

Chai concentrate.  This is a lovely, creamy, spicy mix that you can add to any tea.  Perfect for cozy, winter evenings.

image from LoobyLu

Cookie mix, S'mores, muffins mix, soup... lots of good things, all in jars, all easy to make in large batches and distribute to friends.  Or how about your single, work-a-holic brother-in-law who never cooks at home?  Stock his kitchen shelves with a little homemade goodness!
These little pies in a tiny jar are so cute!
How about a little a bit of springtime in a jar to chase away the midwinter chill?
Mmmm, homemade root beer.

image from EyeSeeISaw

Jar candles.  You could decorate yours with pretty fabric, pressed flowers, or maybe just use a funky, vintage jar and leave it plain.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend!

Secret Santa Saturdays, The Books

This weekend is our first Secret Santa Saturday.  I've been compiling list after list of fun ideas!!  But first I thought I'd start out with a list of some excellent books to get you in the mood, books about making everything from homemade mustard to go-carts.  And, of course, I'm hoping you will leave your own favorite books and resources in the comments for all to see.

Rosemary Gladstar's Herbal Recipes

Handy Dad: 25 Awesome Projects for Dads and Kids

Wee Wonderfuls: 24 Dolls to Sew and Love

Canning for a New Generation

Little Birds

The Black Apple's Paper Doll Primer

Fanciful Felties

Gifted: Lovely Little Things to Knit and Crochet

Felt Wee Folk

Gifts Cooks Love: Recipes for Giving

Zany Wooden Toys That Whiz, Spin, Pop, and Fly

Chocolates, Sweets & Candies: Hand-Made Temptations to Give

That should get you started!  On Saturday I'll have a whole list of fun project ideas.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Wishing you a wonderful weekend full of loved ones, laughter, time to relax and reflect, and, of course, belt-loosening good food!

The Holiday Making Begins

I couldn't even wait until after Thanksgiving to get started on Christmas presents!  Of course, starting early is probably a good idea if I'm really going to do handmade gifts for everyone.  So far I've started, but haven't finished, a gift for Clay, my parents, Vivian, and my secret sibling gift exchange person.  There are still quite a few more on the list...

Both of the kids are getting a stuffed animal from Bird and Little Bird; a fox for Sam, and rabbit for Vivian.  I'm doing both from kits and I'm totally sold on the idea.  Doing a stuffed animal all on my own sounded a little too intimidating, but Annie sends out these charming kits with super easy instructions (pictures for every tiny step!) and the pieces are even cut out already!  I've only had a chance to sit down to it once or twice, but I already have all four limbs and the ears sewn and some of them stuffed (progress was made after the above picture was taken; at that point I only had one ear done, but look how dang cute it is!).  I just about die of cuteness every time I see the almost-put-together Ms. Rabbit.  I think I'll set their animals by their stockings Christmas morning...  I can hardly wait!

I've also got a sweater on the needles for Vivian.  It's the Elizabeth Zimmerman Baby Surprise Jacket, which was the easiest one I could find.  If you recall, Viv's booties are the most complicated thing I've attempted yet and it took a lot of brain power to figure out!  If this goes well, maybe I'll try a toddler one for Sam...

What about you guys?  Am I the only crazy lady that's already starting on Christmas presents or are you busy planning and making too?

Introducing Secret Santa Saturdays!

They won't be coming for a month, but get excited, Secret Santa Saturdays are going to be awesome!  I'm doubling up on weekend giveaways for the month of November and will end giveaways for the year with a Holiday Gift Guide.  Starting in December, Saturdays will be devoted to inspiration and how-tos for a handmade holiday! 

I've already begun compiling lists and websites and I'm getting so excited!  I think I've figured out what I'm going to make for everyone.  And we might just hit the Hundred Dollar Holiday goal!  If you'd like to join us, or just want to add a little handmade goodness to your holidays, I hope that Secret Santa Saturdays will be a great source of inspiration. 

The plan is to start with the more ambitious project ideas at the beginning of the month and work our way into more last-minute, quick-to-whip-up projects towards the end (for all us procrastinators!).  So, enjoy a month of double giveaways and another month of so many fun ideas you'll wish the holidays came twice a year!
image from Little Sister Handmade

More inspiration about simple holidays can be found here and here. 

The Spider and the Bee

Happy belated Halloween!  Here are Sam and Vivian as a spider (a jumping spider, says Sam) and a bee.  Because Clay and I were given creative license by the commissioners of the costumes, we chose fabric that was a little funkier than your run-of-the-mill garden spider or bee.  Next year, however, if we put so much time into costumes I think we're actually going to plan on going to a few events, rather than simply knocking on three doors and calling it a night.  Sam is still too young to realize that giving away the candy you collected to trick-or-treaters that come to your house isn't actually how it goes.  Thankfully, due to his naivete we managed to avoid the crazy sugar rush:)  Although the evening was short and lacking in the traditional candy binge, the process of creating their costumes was so satisfying.  It was especially fun to have Sam be involved, so excited to see his costume evolve and to do holiday-esque things like carving a pumpkin with his dad. Another thing I'll do next year is actually try the costume on the kid as I'm making it!  Understandably, I worked on Vivian's costume while she napped, basing it on a onesie that fits her.  I think I must have overstuffed it because with all that stuffing there was little room to stuff her into the costume!  Perhaps a zipper in the back would've helped rather than just an over-the-head number.  Ah, live and learn.

New Traditions

Inspired by the Hundred Dollar Holiday, I started thinking about how I'd like our holidays to be this year, and in subsequent years.  Having a relatively young family, our traditions are still in the process of being built and solidified.  But even if your kids are older, I think you can still change things up a bit, especially if it brings more peace and meaning to your holidays.  Here are a few things we plan on doing to celebrate Christmas:

A Week of Candlelight:  I have such fond memories of power outtages when I was a kid.  They weren't an uncommon event in rural Maine and were always a cause for some excitement.  We'd pull out the oil lamps, flashlights and boardgames, build up a roaring fire and enjoy each other's company and an early bedtime.  I hope to recreate that peaceful feeling by turning off the lights as the sun sets and lighting candles and oil lamps for the week preceding Christmas.  No computers, no TV, just books, puzzles, boardgames, snuggles, and of course, the ever-elusive early bedtime. 

A More Meaningful Advent Calendar: Last year I made a reusable advent calendar with an activity tucked into each pocket.  This year I plan to add to it by incorporating the Christmas story.  It will be a way to remind us each day of why we celebrate Christmas and a way to sort of take the journey along with Mary, Joseph and Baby Jesus.  Each day, along with the holiday activity, there will be a note or scripture to read starting with Mary's visit from the angel and culminating with the birth of the Savior.  So, perhaps one day we might pull a slip of paper from the pocket that reads, "Mary and Joseph were on their way to Bethlehem on a donkey.  Joseph likely walked while Mary rode as she was so very pregnant.  Let's do something today to make another person feel good like Joseph did; let's bring Christmas cookies to a neighbor."  Or something like that, I'll work out the details in a few weeks:)

Traditional Christmas Eve Dinner: Rather than a traditional American dinner, I'd really love to have a simple, Israeli meal that will remind us of what Mary and Joseph might have eaten on the eve of their son's birth.  Perhaps we'll even spread a blanket on the floor.  And, of course, it will be eaten by candlelight.  From what I've read, I think the meal might include an herb salad, lentils and beans, dried pears, pomegranites, dried figs, dried apples mixed with toasted sesame, flat bread with vinegar, and honeycomb for dessert.

Some fun traditions we're continuing are the handmade sibling gift exchange and the making of Tomten.  This year I'm hoping to also make a soft nativity set.  I've always wanted one that was child-friendly so the kids can really engage with it, but I've never seen one that was just right.  So, perhaps this is the year it will finally be made. 

What fun traditions are you looking forward to?

Costumes

The fabric scraps are flying; we're knee deep in faux fur!  Ah, the week before Halloween.  I love dressing up and making costumes, and luckily I married someone who gets equally excited about it. 
Clay is in charge of making Sam's costume and I'm in charge of Vivian's.  Sam picked out what he wants to be, so we're making Vivian a co-ordinating outfit.  Can you guess what they're dressing up as? 

We'll have the big reveal next Monday after Halloween...

A Quilt for Vivi, Kind of...

Well, thank goodness Abbey sent me that beautiful baby quilt because as happy as I am with this one, it certainly wouldn't pass for a baby quilt!  I was feeling bad that I hadn't made Vivi her own quilt so I said to myself, "Well, this quilt will be in honor of Vivian and I'll make it extra girly."  But, in the end, it was still a big grownup quilt with pretty flowers on it.  And that's okay too.  I'm sure she'll enjoy plenty of afternoons in the sun and picnics and tea parties on it some day.

 

I wanted something light colored and lightweight for summer, but still rugged enough to haul up the canyon for picnics.  The solutions was large patches (+12" square) of pretty vintage sheets, tied onto an old cotton blanket with no batting.  It's just the right thickness and I don't have to worry about the pretty fabric on top getting yucky because the back is a heavy woven, tan material, perfect for putting down on dew damp grass, sandy beaches or the backyard.

We took it out for a test drive for Clay's Father's Day picnic and mini-hike and it made the whole affair seem much more festive to be eating on such a pretty "table."  I'm envisioning plenty more backyard picnics.

Toddler Thank You Cards

I saw this idea somewhere, though now I can't remember where, but someone deserves credit for the idea of turning your toddler's artwork into thank you cards.  I trimmed off the bottoms of his paintings (that's really the only part with paint anyway, as he can't reach much higher on the easel!) and we wrote thank you letters for his birthday presents. 
It was a lot of fun to involve him in the process.  He decorated the backs of the envelopes and I asked him questions and wrote his answers in the letters.  Most of the letters followed the same format.  I wrote a thank you and told what Sam liked about the present, as if it were coming straight from him.  Then I added "I also want to tell you..." and put the direct quotes there.  Sometimes they were about the present or the person we were writing to, sometimes they were more along the lines of "I found a bug!" or "I like cupcakes!"  But I like that he's learning about writing letters and I'm sure people will enjoy hearing what he wanted to share with them, no matter what it is. Today we'll take a field trip to the post office and pick up some stamps, which I'll probably let Sam put on and drop in the mail slot.  It will likely be a highlight of his day:)

Simple Birthdays

I'm really trying to create a culture of celebration in our home that doesn't revolve around getting oodles of stuff.  I think we did pretty well not going overboard with the presents this year, although Sam did still make out with quite a haul, I think!  He's really good about examining and enjoying each present as he opens it, before moving on to the next.  I think these presents could've been enough for two birthdays though!  We'll try to simplify a bit more for next year... 

Here's what his second birthday brought him: Three books about animals from the thrift store.  I got "grown up" books, because he seems to enjoy them more.  But paying upwards of $25 a book for the really nice ones, doesn't make a lot of sense when they're intended for someone who may or may not color on the pages.

A bug box made by his dad (I'll show more about this one later).

A "shoot the moon" game made by his uncle Christopher.

A little red wagon from his grandma and grandpa.

Some wooden kitchen toys.  These are the ones I accepted in exchange for a review.  I must admit that we love the toys, though I don't think I'll do reviews for such big companies anymore.  Not that this one did anything to inspire that, they were perfectly lovely, but my gut tells me I should support smaller shops.  But we do certainly love these toys!  Sam had so much fun pulling each one out of the brown paper packaging when they came in the mail (it was a slightly belated present, which I always kind of enjoy as they draw out the celebration).  I cleared out a low cabinet for him in the kitchen so he would have his very own spot to store them in.  So, far his favorite thing is "cutting" the fruits and veggies in half.  They're stuck together with velcro and come with a little wooden knife.  Plan Toys, the manufacturer, makes all their toys out of "green" material (rubberwood trees that haven't had fertilizer used on them) and the toys are chemical-free, with non-toxic dyes, which is very reassuring.

A boy from church who sometimes babysits Sam carved his name in woodshop (top).  Isn't it rad?  I'm going to hang it in his new room; we're doing a little room switcharoo soon due to Ms. Vivian's impending arrival.  And at the party he got a whole bunch of wonderful, handmade cards.  I requested no presents, but suggested that cards made by his friends would be much appreciated, and they were.  Most of them came with toddler artwork and even a few portraits of Sam.  One came with some photos of Sam and his friend from last fall that were so cute.  I loved it, and Sam loves looking at them.

Sugar-Free Party Food

Every since I used m&ms to encourage Sam to use the potty, we've been trying to avoid sugar altogether.  I got the "good" kind (cane sugar, food-based coloring etc.), but they were still a steady dose of sweet throughout the whole day and it made him kind of crazy.  He's so much happier and more pleasant to be around when his blood sugar isn't going like a roller coaster.  So, for his birthday party, I thought it would be decidedly more festive to have him in a happy mood at the end of it, and not coming off a sugar high, crashed and cranky. Because the party was at 2:00 in the afternoon, we really only needed to provide snacks.  So the menu included carrot cupcakes, chocolate chip cookies, juice and strawberries with a creamy dip (left over frosting actually).  The dip was a last-minute stroke of genius; the strawberries were originally entended to be plain.  I was also planning on doing popcorn with butter, olive oil, salt and a little nutritional yeast, but I just ran out of time. 
Here's how I kept the sugar to a minimum.  The cookies and cupcakes are the tricky part, but both were made with 100% whole wheat flour and only honey and molasses to sweeten them.  I don't think anyone even knew the difference.  The frosting was even honey-sweetened.  We try and limit even honey and natural sweeteners for ourselves and for Sam, but for a festive occasion it was fun to feel like we were having treats without the negative effects of highly processed white sugar and flour.  We're mostly water or fresh juice drinkers, so to get bottled juice was a "treat" as well, and definitely more healthy than soda or some of the other alternatives.

Here's the cupcake recipe (another treasure from Clay's mom!):

• 2 cups whole wheat flour
• 1 tsp baking powder
• 1 tsp salt
• 2 tsp cinnamon
• 3/4 cup oil
• 3/4 cup honey
• 4 eggs
• 2 cups grated carrot
• 1 cup unsweetened, crushed pineapple, drained
• 1/2 cup chopped walnuts (I used pecans)

Mix the dry together, and the wet together, then combine them.  Bake at 350 degrees for 35-40 minutes (less for cupcakes) or until a skewer comes out clean.  For the frosting you can combine cream cheese, butter, vanilla and honey and it's delicious.  You can also skip the butter, I was just feeling indulgent.